I know we've talked about how your girlfriend/boyfriend/mate feels about your games. I know we've talked about how your kids feel about your games. I know we've talked about how friends feel about your games.
I don't recall ever seeing a thread were we talked about how our PARENTS feel about our games.
I'm guessing many people here are around my age or older, and therefore, we grew up with the NES or eariler systems -- before the 90's, before the rise of violent and bloody and M rated games. So the issues are totally different, of course.
I'm curious to know how your parents felt about your game playing, if they tried to limit you in anyway, if they bought you stuff or you had to buy it all yourself, if they ever saw any pratical value to the things. Feel free to include other relatives if you lived or spent major time with them.
To get this started off, here's some information on my case:
I'm 27 years ago -- born in 1976. I started on games early in my life, thanks to my parents, which seems rather funny to me today. When I was 4 I came down with lazy eye, and the eye doctor told my parents that I needed to work on my hand-eye cordination (I also had to wear glasses after that point for the next 20 years of my life, until I had LASIK done in 1999). He suggested a game system like a Atari. So my folks bought me one and some games to play on it. I recall I was allowed to play it for a while each day as long as I did'nt spend all day on it. My parents even played with it some (they liked Bowling) or played with me (I recall Pac Man and Space Invaders in perticular.)
That seems REALLY weird to me now, because even though my parents got me a Commodore 128D for Christmas of 84 (which, granted, my Dad used a lot) and a Nintendo for Christmas of 87 (which I never directly ASKED for, just said the comericals looked nice! ) they always seemed to HATE me spending ANY time with the things.
I was'nt the most social kid growing up, so I saw the games as a release valve, and probaly spent more time on then I should have. Still, even with my folks nagging, I finally settled into a understanding with them. As long as I kept my grades up, did other things with my social life, and did'nt spend all day on them, I could play them. My parents never did understand the attraction about them, but often checked up on me to see what I was doing. They did buy most of my stuff, though (a habit that only recently stopped a few years ago, much to my disapoinment. They think I'm too OLD now for them. )
Of course, this was also in the late 80's and early 90's, when the most controversial games on the market were Doom and Mortal Kombat. I never bought them (never been a huge fan of them) but I rented them and my folks wer'nt thrilled with them but let me play them. I can tell you if games like GTA III had been out when I was 16 or under, no freakin way in HELL would I be allowed to play them!
The Super Nintendo was the first big item that I bought with my own money -- saved up for it all year in 1991 and got my folks to buy it for me for Christmas of 1991. I still recall asking for another game with it, giving a list, and $250. They came back with the system ($180) and Final Fantasy II ($70! To this day, still my most expensive game).
Now when I go home to see the folks they still act like they are 'tolerating' me when I take out the GBA SP for car trips or what not. I guess sometings never change. Hey, they started it back in 1980.
Personaly, I wish parents WOULD take more change in controling what their kids played, like mine did. Stores need to take a morer active role also, but is being controling such a bad idea in this case?
Your turn to share.